the pain of losing something precious – be it happiness or material wealth – can be forgotten over time. but our missed opportunities never leave us, and every time they come back to haunt us, we ache. or perhaps what haunts us is that nagging thought that things might have turned out differently. because without that thought, we would put it down to fate and accept it.
sabahattin ali
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keeping silent sometimes looks like broken glass pieces! they fill your mouth. if you remain silent, they hurt you; if you speak, they make you bleed…
oguz atay -
judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
dalai lama -
life is short, and art is long, opportunity fleeting, experiment treacherous, judgment difficult.
hippocrates -
the most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. these persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. beautiful people do not just happen.
elisabeth kubler-ross -
never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake.
napoleon bonaparte -
i am not what happened to me, i am what i choose to become."
(see: carl gustav jung) -
never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.
(see: mark twain)
this saying was told to me by my brigade commander, brigadier general atak. one day, following an incident, he had had an argument with a military personnel. when he summoned me, he was angry. normally, he was a very warm, calm, and knowledgeable person. he told me this saying, and i jotted it down at that moment. i realized then that he had said it solely for it to have an impact on my life — because he said nothing else to me. our meeting ended right after. thank you, commander; thanks to you, i stopped talking to — not just arguing with, but even speaking to — many stupid people." -
when you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. but if you listen, you may learn something new.
dalai lama -
an intellectual says a simple thing in a hard way. an artist says a hard thing in a simple way.
charles bukowski