good books don't give a person answers, they just clean the mirror a little more. this book is such a mirror that at first you see yourself all cool and impressive. as the pages go on, it unscrews the bolts of your ego and tosses them out one by one. then, in the mirror, you see that strange being standing behind you, the one that's made the decisions in your place your whole life, held all the strings, and played you like a puppet on its finger. amazon link