a very good actor and a person i believe to be a fraud. i think these english men first market themselves as people in the mindset of being super cool, unattainable, deep, "i don't like the things everybody else likes." then with those never-ending whims and mood swings of theirs they eat away years of your life.
that's why i can't really buy into all those happiness poses he strikes with dua lipa on social media right now. i wish dua had sat down with taylor swift for a half-hour chat about english men before getting married, she'd have run away at a sprint, if you ask me. if what this guy's ex-girlfriend says is true, the man who throughout the relationship said "i don't get with famous people, i don't like living in the public eye, the met gala isn't for me" is today living that exact life he condemned with one of the biggest pop stars in the world.
for me the issue here isn't changing your mind, after all once feelings enter into it people can do the things they said they wouldn't, but they don't do it this eagerly, come on, man! hey buddy, what happened to your shyness, to that show-shunning character of yours? you held a three-day, three-night wedding and shut down palermo to get married, you went so overboard that in the end the city's residents protested you. wow, good thing our man doesn't like showing off.
anyone who wants to can be as tasteless as they like and spend their money on pointless things, of course, but the thing that gets on my nerves here is this guy selling his own reluctance to his ex-girlfriend as a character trait and stringing the girl along. if you don't love a person, you don't suffocate them with your whims. you say openly, right at the start, "i don't want this, i don't like you enough, i'm just passing time with you." don't go causing people to spend months, years of their lives questioning themselves. my whole life i never strung along anyone i knew i wouldn't be able to meet the expectations of, because to me that's flat-out cruelty.
and if the claims are true, it's said that while he was at dinner with his ex-girlfriend, dua lipa was at the same venue too, and that their meeting took place that very evening. if it's true, it's a truly stomach-turning story. i believe nobody can build their happiness on someone else's unhappiness. on top of that, relationships that are made this much of a show, whose every step is marketed as a "fairytale love," give me a horrendous sense of artificiality. in my opinion this guy is a walking red flag, and what the hell he's about will come out in time.
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